Sunday, April 29, 2007

love

Red roses were her favorites; her namewas also Rose,And every year her husband sent themtied with pretty bows.The year he died the roses weredelivered to her door,The card said "Be My Valentine" likeall the years before.

Each year he sent her roses and thenote would always say,"I love you even more this year thanlast year on this day,My love for you will always grow withevery passing year,"She knew this was the last time thatthe roses would appear.

She thought he ordered roses inadvance before this day,Her loving husband did not know thathe would pass away.He always liked to do things early waybefore the time,Then if he got too busy everythingwould work out fine.

She trimmed the stems and placed themin a very special vase,Then sat the vase beside the portraitof his smiling face.She would sit for hours in herhusband's favorite chair,While staring at his picture and theroses sitting there.

A year went by and it was hard to livewithout her mate,With loneliness and solitude that hadbecome her fate.Then the very hour as on Valentinesbefore,The doorbell rang and there were rosessitting by her door.

She brought the roses in and then justlooked at them in shock,Then went to get the telephone to callthe florist shop.The owner answered and she asked himif he would explain,Why would someone do this to hercausing her such pain?

"I know your husband passed away morethan a year ago,"The owner said, "I knew you'd call andyou would want to know.""The flowers you received today werepaid for in advance,Your husband always planned ahead heleft nothing to chance."

"There is a standing order that I haveon file down here,And he has paid well in advance you'llget them every year.""There also is another thing that Ithink you should know,He wrote a special little card he didthis years ago."

"Then should ever I find out that he'sno longer here,That's the card that should be sent toyou the following year."She thanked him and hung up the phoneher tears now flowing hard,Her fingers shaking as she slowlyreached to get the card.

Inside the card she saw that he hadwritten her a note,Then as she stared in total silencethis is what he wrote.Hello my love I know it's been a yearsince I've been gone,I hope it hasn't been too hard for youto overcome.

I know it must be lonely and the painis very real,For if it was the other way I know howI would feel.The love we shared made everything sobeautiful in life,I loved you more than words can sayyou were the perfect wife.

You were my friend and lover youfulfilled my every need,I know it's only been a year butplease try not to grieve.I want you to be happy even when youshed your tears,That is why the roses will be sent toyou for years.

When you get these roses think of allthe happiness,That we had together and how both ofus were blessed.I have always loved you and I know Ialways will,But my love you must go on you havesome living still.

Please try to find happiness whileliving out your days,I know it is not easy but I hope youfind some ways.The roses will come every year andthey will only stop,When your door's not answered when theflorist stops to knock.

He will come five times that day incase you have gone out,But after his last visit he will knowwithout a doubt,To take the roses to the place whereI've instructed him,And place the roses where we aretogether once again.

- Written and owned by James A.Kisner -

Saturday, April 28, 2007

yea

i'm accidently in love with you.

who?? lao zha bor lor

I actually stopped blogging for a period of time because I’m kind of lazy to update it regularly and not really enthusiastic about it anymore. But recently I came across a blog of this 60 over year old ah ma and she somehow INSPIRED me to start blogging again. Hahaha. I’m totally speechless when I saw her blog. She posted up photos of herself, blog in English, has her own RAP, etc. She is featured in the newspaper as well. Anyway if you watched movies by jack neo you should be familiar with her. She calls herself LAO ZHA BOR!! Hahaha it means old woman in hokkien. POWER la!! You should really check her out.

=laozhabor=

some photos from her blog. CUTE RIGHT!!!!! stylo milo ah ma!



quick visit her now!!

al-mighty dad

with his super long hand, he managed to bring the 4 pillows and 3 boosters back home safely. LOL. total MADNESS!!! cant stop laughing when i saw that. LOL LOL LOL




Friday, April 27, 2007

what do you think?

went to lucky plaza with lao na yesterday after our gym session. wa sek. first time tried sauna!! awesome!! haha. she wanted to check out PSP ear piece. wa, the shop there damn scary sia. kns. anyhow price their product. and when you say you dont want to buy, they started to lower the price. crap.

the first shop we went, they priced their PSP case at $18, than we started to walk around and saw another shop that got the same product so went in and check out the price again. this shop offered us $35!!!! wth. the previous shop was selling at $18!! than we said nono. wanted to walk away. that guy quickly lower down the price to $32. siao eh?!? i gave him a very SHOCKED face! we tried to walk away but he stopped us saying you want it for how much? feel like telling him can give us for free?? whaahaha. damn scary. next time go lucky plaza must ask a guy to go with you. if not everytime those fellow tried to cheat our money! crap la.

than lao na told me last time she got cheated of $200!!!!!!!! my god. when i heard it i FAINTED 1 million times! LOL. some china a*s approached her at IMM, telling her that they need to borrow money from her blah blah blah, asking how much is she willing to lend her? SHE EVEN WALKED TO THE ATM TO DRAW OUT MONEY FOR THEM!!!!!! crap. she got $250 in her account so she draw $200 to LEND them!!! wa sek. damn easy to bluff sia. next time i also tell her, eh fiona i need $500 for emergency use. my cat got pregnant need to bring it to the doctor for abortion. i will return it to you next time. at that point of time, she was damn happy cause she thought she had done a good deed. haha. she even told her friend about it. than she remembered that she never ask that china a*s for their number!!! haha than how is she going to contact them and get back her money?? crap crap crap.

her friend told her that she got those face that said ' please come and cheat my money!!! ' waahahahaa.


what do you think?

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

something from shubhas...

To all the ladies,

Enjoy!!!

1. Be realistic. "If you look like Roseanne, don't fixate on finding a Tom Cruise look-alike," says Brooks. "I also tell women who seem to be on a money hunt
-- that is, looking exclusively for men with big bucks -- they'll have to change their attitude if their goal is a long-term relationship. Men can sense right away if you're out for their wallet, not their personality." In the long run, the most priceless attributes you should want in a mate are not looks and/or money but a loving heart, dependable nature and commitment to you.

2. Be a hot mama, not a prospective mama. "Men have a radar for detecting women who are baby hungry," warns Christie Kelleher, director of the New York office of Kelleher & Associates, an upscale matchmaking service for successful professionals. Kelleher, whose service has brought together about 6,000 marriages in 19 years, adds, "He's thinking, 'Whoa -- I don't even know your middle name, and I already know the colors you want to paint your kid's nursery.'" Your best bet: no baby talk!

3. Make dating a priority. Janis Spindel, the self-described "cupid in a Chanel suit" and president of the New York-based Janis Spindel Serious Matchmaking service, suggests that clients approach finding the right man as they would a job hunt. The key is to always be prepared because you never know when or where you'll meet someone. Wear clothes that make you feel attractive and plan ahead for interesting conversation. "You also need to change your routine," adds Spindel, who in the last 10 years has brought together more than 300 marriages and 400 monogamous couples. "Don't get your newspaper delivered. You might meet someone at the newsstand."

4. Nix the ex talk. On the first few dates, Brooks advises her clients to ex-cise the desire to tell the new man all about the previous boyfriend. If your ex was fabulous, your date will feel he can't measure up. But if you bash your ex too much, your date could think, Whoops -- she might be talking about me that way in a few months! Similarly, you should be wary of a man who can't stop talking about his former paramour. If he's still hung up on her, his heart has no room for you.

5. Neurotics needn't apply. You both need to be emotionally healthy to forge a successful relationship, says Neil Clark Warren, Ph.D., who founded a cyber matchmaking service called eHarmony.com in 2000. For instance, it's not a good sign if you're in the relationship primarily because you're frightened of being alone. It's equally bad if your guy looks as longingly at the gin bottle as he does at you. Or if he's morbidly depressed. Don't fall into the codependent trap and think you can "heal" him. It's smarter to look for a man who doesn't need healing.

6. Mind your manners. Men are understandably appalled when their bright, attractive, funny date suddenly does something tacky like ripping a piece of bread in half and putting the other half back in the bread basket or applying lipstick at the table. "Men also find it gauche when the woman calls for the check," says Brooks. "The man wants to do the summoning of the waiter and the paying of the bill." Spindel also warns against a few more etiquette faux pas: "Be on time, shut off your cell phone, look him in the eye, not down at the floor. Don't ask him too many questions about his job. He'll think you're a gold digger." You don't need to be Emily Post, but if you display the sensitivity of a lamppost, don't be surprised if the first date is the last one.

7. Similarity breeds success. "This doesn't mean you've got to marry your clone. But when you're getting to know someone, ask yourself if you and he have the same core values," says Warren, also the author of Date...or Soul Mate? How to Know If Someone Is Worth Pursuing in Two Dates or Less. "Think money, intelligence, lifestyle and sense of humor," he says. And think really hard if your major life goals mix well. Both of you need to agree on the merits or disadvantages of marriage, making babies and whether to aspire to living in a tree house or a penthouse. These are things that you can start finding out in as little as a date or two.

8. Present a challenge. "Let the guy know you like him, but don't take his initial interest as a signal to latch on to him right away," Kelleher suggests. She points out that "three dates do not a relationship make." We're not talking The Rules here -- don't hesitate to return his call in a timely fashion. But don't build your social life around him (for example, keep your Friday night theater subscription with your friend Beth) and don't press him to talk about his "feelings." Do make it clear that while he's a welcome addition to your life, he is not the whole enchilada. This is all subject to change after you have been dating awhile and the relationship has become more serious.

9. Don't be a babbling brook. Sure, you've got a host of charming stories, but save some for the second date. "Men really want to occasionally get a word in edgewise," says Brooks. Women should pace themselves and think of about two to three great stories to tell on their date. But don't go overboard talking about yourself!

10. Sunny side up. "My male clients bemoan the lack of warmth that women project," says Kelleher. "Guys say many women clearly don't want their date to give them a hug or open the door." Lower your guard, flex those lips into a smile and be nice.

11. Be a girl. Leave your professional persona at the office. "My male clients also complain that women often come across as masculine -- dressing in stiff suits and debating their date on everything from what wine to order to world affairs to who gets the check," says Kelleher. (Let him.) In other words: It's a date, not a boxing match.

12. Look beyond his good looks. Don't be dazzled by a handsome face and buff bod. Is this guy worthy of winning your heart? "How good is he at relationships? How does he treat his mother? How does he get along with siblings, cousins and friends?" asks Brooks. If the answer to those questions is not too well, take heed. Once he is confident of your affections, he might revert to type and treat you like everyone else he "cares" about.

13. Be mindful of that ole black magic. At first glance you felt more of an urge to hold his hand than jump his bones? That's not a terrible sign: Physical attraction can deepen as you really get to know and trust each other. But there must be an ember of initial attraction to build from. Without any chemistry, Warren says, you're better off as friends.

14. Hold out before having sex. Spindel is adamant that you should forego sex at least for a little while. The matchmaker feels that until your guy is ready to commit at least part of his soul, you're better off not committing your entire body. Her rationale: "Ideally you should wait until you've had the discussion about not seeing other people. That way you're sure he's operating more out of love than lust."

15. Go with the flow. The real key to making it as a couple, says Warren, is that both people are willing to compromise. If one or both partners must always have their way and are threatened by even small changes, trouble will soon be brewing. For example, if he suddenly has to work late on a night you were hoping to cook him dinner, be understanding of his need to be flexible and have him come over for coffee instead of the main course. Of course, he should be really sorry for the change in plans and should want to make it up to you.

Monday, April 23, 2007

nothing la

damn fast. leaving for thai next weeeek!! hoho. right after labour day. =D

leaving for thai on 2nd may. than knn!! needa hand in one assignment on that day. fuck fuck fuck. how sia. its either i submit i week early which is THIS WEDNESDAY or.... where got time sia??? sian diao.

work schedule for next month out. sian diao. needa work night shift again. althought its more relax but not good for my complexion leh. my face already so cui.

kns, cannot laugh in office!! wth. somebody outside complain that we laughed too LOUD! nonsense sia. LOL. dont laugh like keep all the air inside make my mouth stinky how? later dont laugh i got depression how? later dont laugh i become siao kia how? how how how? how can you stop us from laughing. can control one meh? cui lo. work already like so boring. still stop us from laughing to entertain ourselves. than we sure die one ma. aiyoyoyoyoyo.

finally got myself a new spect. wa lao! kns like abit regret sia. no more plastic stylish frame for me. settle for a plain looking metal frame spect. damn exp for that super thin lenses!! cost me 200 over bucks. heart damn pain. not use to it leh. than now i look at my face abit funny leh like dont suit the spect or the problem lies with my face? cui cui cui laaaaa

Wednesday, April 18, 2007

gan du lan.

met up with jensy yesterday. she is flying off to states today. gonna miss her for 1 whole month. damn song lo. after that she is stopping over at taiwan for 5 freaking days!!! shop till she drop. hahaha. eh jensy, remember my doraemon WATER crystal ball. no water inside i dont want. wahhahaha.

than she told me stories of some bitches at rh. wa sek. i listen liao also damn du lan. feel like going up to her and slap her fly hong kong. kns. PUI! queky, angel!! remember to help jensy take revenge eh. KNS!!!

well that day she was quarrelling with jason OUTSIDE BALLROOM PANTRY. she got pissed off is because jason shouted at her when she talked to him in a nice tone. yea, she admit that she should have clear the room instead of sitting down and chatting with one malay girl. than knn got one friendless, disgusting, slutty, act nice BAI HONG NAM overheard the whole situation and started to gossip to another retard bitch. this friendless, disgusting, slutty, act nice BAI HONG NAM damn kaypo. she saw jensy talking to another girl faster go approach her and ask her 'eh just now what jennifer tell you?' HELLO! whats wrong with you? sibei kaypoh leh. not as if you are her mum she need to report every single things to you.

after that this friendless, disgusting, slutty, act nice BAI HONG NAM started to tell everyone about what happened between jen and jason. and the most funniest things is in the end, those people who know about that story will automatically come to jen and tell her that this friendless, disgusting, slutty, act nice BAI HONG NAM and friend gossip about her behind her back. whahahahahahaha. LOSERS. want to gossip about people in the end kanna bastard back. lousy la. this shows how EVERYONE dont like LOSERS like you and your friend!!! hohoho.

and the worst thing is, they want to spread story also dont know how to spread it CORRECTLY! siao. suppose to be quarrel OUTSIDE BALLROOM PANTRY change to quarrel in LONG BAR. and added what jen throw banquet people face. one casual labour shouted at full time in long bar, no respect at all. sibei crap lo. and than still add what all the long bar people laughing at them. LOL LOL LOL. come on lo. why not change to jen quarrel with jason at rh FRONT DESK than ALL THE GUEST LAUGHING AT THEM or even better say they quarrel in LOGAN`S OFFICE than jen damn du lan him TAKE ONE KNIFE AND CHASE HIM AROUND THE WHOLE HOTEL?? wa sek. damn GOOD story teller eh. you people rocks my life or like what ros said rocks my SOCKS!! hohoho. shame on you la. please get the bloody facts right before you start spreading rumours about others. that is the most basic my dear.

eh friendless, disgusting, slutty, act nice BAI HONG NAM why not next time film down the whole process after that burn it into one cd and sent to every single pple in banquet or you can upload to youtube also leh. easier for you. at least pple can see what REALLY happened instead of being brainwash by your lousy stories. no need to listen to your lousy story telling.

kns somemore is this friendless, disgusting, slutty, act nice BAI HONG NAM who keng the most still at there pretend say what they left her ALONE there to clear the whole room. i PUI x 1 million times. everytime dont know will disappear go where keng still dare to talk big. useless bitch. really hate her to the max x 1 zillion times.

how how how?? can make them disappear from our sight?

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

nice right?

been a looooong time since we took some really nice photos!!

phong was in town last weekend. that time at thailand, we promised to bring him for a clubbing session here. so we headed down to mos on friday. everything was paid for and planned nicely for him. vip services eh. hahaha.


the few of us



i love this pic lor. nice right? especially the people inside. wahhaha



random photos...


phong, cheeeee, meting, angel, me (spot cheeee in that pic!!)

queky and phong

RH twins!!

ting and queky

ting, queky, angel (miss RH leh. mai siao siao!)

phong with me

where the other half of my face gone to? damn


super underage lousy drinker. LOL. he merlion quite a few times. *faint* first time to mos he must be damn happy and excited. whahahaha.


finally fall asleep at mac. phong tried to dig his ear for him using FRIES!!! wahahahha

anyway lucas quite heng. manage to get into mos since he is SUPER underage. ahaha. imagine if he cannot get in........

Sunday, April 01, 2007

something funny from kennysia.com! hee

I was at Orchard Road this morning, partying, when a CHEEBYE BANGLA come by and BLOCK MY WAY!!!!!!!!!
I tried to be reasonable so I asked politely why he did that. But you know what the fucker did? HE IGNORED ME AND CONTINUE TO BLOCK MY WAY!!!! SO ANGRY! To that CHEEBYE BANGLA, I HOPE YOUR TESTICLES DROP OFF!
I am so fucking irritated with that CHEEBYE BANGLA! So what if he is a CHEEBYE BANGLA? Doesn't mean he can just BLOCK MY WAY like that. If every single CHEEBYE BANGLA come and BLOCK MY WAY, I still need to live meh?!!